Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Kids: the latest

Ben, you have a bit of a crayon peeling fetish. You love to sit next to your sister while she's coloring and methodically peel the paper off the crayons.
When we watch a show first thing in the morning you say "nuggle me" you love to snuggle. You and your sister often fight over my lap.

You still love trains, trucks, cars, and all other things boy. However, you also love to play dress up with your big sister who ropes you into games of "house" or "princess". You came out the other day wearing nothing but one of her tutus and dress up high heels declaring "I princess!"

I have to watch you like a hawk. You have lots of nick names these days. Your auntie Kristin, Dionne and Emily call you ALVIN. From Alvin and the chipmunks. I feel this one needs no further explanation. Your sister lovingly refers to you as "Mr. turd". We call you "curious Ben" and the most common one heard around here is BENJAMIN. Your full name, with no nonsense in our tone :)

The picture below is of you after you put your hands in the paint while picking your sister up from school, I truly can't leave you alone for a moment. You dipped your hands in the paint and then wiped them down your face. It's times like these that I don't know whether to spank you or hug you. You are such a turkey, but it's such a demonstration of your bright and gregarious personality.

A few weeks ago I gave you your vitamin (it's one of those hard chewable vitamins) and I came back in to find you saying "where it go? my nose?" and I paused, looked at you and said "Ben...did you put your vitamin up your nose?" to which you replied "yes! my vitamin in my nose!". Well, thankfully your dad was still home so he could hold you still while I pried it out with the tweezers. You'd really jammed that thing up there.

A week after the vitamin incident you and I were playing/cleaning in the garage while Brooklyn was at ballet. I came in the house to grab something (mind you the door was wide open so I could still hear you) when suddenly it got quiet. I realized I couldn't hear you anymore so I cam rushing out. Your Thomas ride toy was down at the end of our driveway by the street and you were NO WHERE to be found! No joke son, FIVE minutes later (and a lot of screaming and running around like a chicken with my head cut off) I spotted you in the neighbors yard across the street hiding from me. You had spotted the cat and apparently chased after it. I was so happy to find you I couldn't even bring myself to discipline you right then. That incident, I am confident, shaved a good 5 years off this old girls life.

On valentines day we met Christie, Noah and Natalie at the park for some play time. You ran down this giant hill that led to the tennis courts. You were playing on the path with your shoes for quite a while, just having fun all by yourself. Christie and I were perched at the very top of the hill so we had a vantage point to keep an eye on all four of you. I looked over to the play structure to watch your sister do the monkey bars and I turned back to see you...buck naked...running up and down the grass yelling something I couldn't make out. In the minute I looked away you had disrobed from your shoes, socks, pants, shirt AND underwear. I went rushing down the hill to hear you chanting at the top of your gleeful lungs "nakey boy, nakey boy, nakey boy". Child,  you would spend every waking second naked if we'd let you.

Brooklyn:
You think "McDonalds" with the golden arches is called "Old McDonalds"

You recently learned how to swing across the monkey bars! This was a big thing! You tried and tried last summer, so to succeed at it this last time at the park brought a big smile to your face (and mine too :)

You have entered the stage of being fearful. You are very scared of the smell of car exhaust, you don't like to be left alone in the front of the house, you are terrified of the sight of blood.

Mimi found a box of my old ponies, barbies and polly pockets. You have been in hog heaven. The polly pockets in particular have brought you so much joy. It's been a lot of fun playing with these with you...and watching you enjoy them.

You had so much fun making your valentines with me this year. We went to Lowes and picked up some paint samples (stole this idea) and then put suckers in them. You wrote your name on every single one, and without complaining once might I add! Here you are showing off your handy work!
 
I feel like there are SO many other things you two say and do on a daily basis that I want to remember! I am going to try to be better about writing those things down here more often. I love you both!! You keep me smiling and keep me on my toes. xoxo- mom

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Grandpa Chucks Birthday = BEST Letter Ever

We went to a great, kid friendly restaurant on Monday night to celebrate G'pa Chucks birthday. They had a kids section of toys, so the kids did great. Plus, it was a burger joint so fries are always a quick way to my kids hearts. Brooklyn actually declared at one point "This is a pickle and fry kind of night!!" If only anything made my heart skip a beat like a fry basket does for my kids :) Love the innocence.

Before we left Brooklyn drew a beautiful picture for his birthday card and then brought it over to me, asking me to write down what she wanted to say. This is verbatim what it said. To say this made us all smile, especially Grandpa, is an understatement. It got laughs and tears.

Dear Grandpa Chuck,
You are my favorite Grandpa. You have always been my favorite Grandpa. You have always loved me for joy. And Grandpa, you have an amazing heart. God, will you love Grandpa Chuck for always? Grandpa will you love God for always? I love your big heart. Now Grandpa, what do you like playing with me when you are at my house? Grandpa you are the favorite Grandpa of my whole life. Do you like to have fun and take me to Old McDonalds? So God, will you just love my Grandpa and take all his sin? You cleansed Grandpa Chucks heart from sin.
I love you.
Love Brooklyn

*** Dad, when you read this know that when I asked her what her birthday card would say to Papa it was that you are her favorite Papa of her life. She has a lot of love to go around for her peeps ;-)



It was a very fun night filled with lot's of bad for you food, kisses, smiles and laughs. Happy birthday "GWAMPA"! We are still two days later talking about cake and fries. In the words of Benny after we left "dat was fun gwampas birday!"

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

8 class countdown!

Couont em!

Exactly 8 classes until this guy is done with school foreveER!!!! But whose counting. Oh wait, I am :)!



We are sooooo excited. We even booked our trip to Maui to celebrate just the two of us. Matt started the degree completion program at George Fox Jan of 2009 (5 months after Brooklyn was born) , finished 16 months later, had 8 months off and then started the MBA program in Jan of 2011 (5 weeks after Ben was born).

42 of the last 50 months has been work, school and family balance. He has handled it so beautifully, with such balance, grace and ease. It has truly been a test sometimes (particularly during the all day Saturday classes). All that being said, we are THRILLED to close this amazing chapter and see what's in store next. What in the world will he do with all his spare time? :)
 

Monday, January 28, 2013

"we go shwimming?!"

We had a super fun satruday.

To start the day off we headed to a restaurant on the east side called "slappy cakes". There's a griddle in the middle of your table where you can customize your own pancakes! Dangerous or fun...you pick. We talked a LOT about "don't touch, very HOT" so thankfully we made it all the way through our meal un-scalded. The staff was amazing, kept bringing little cups of chocolate chips & blueberries for Ben when it was obvious he was getting antsy. We rarely go out to eat for that exact reason, Ben just isn't quite there yet. Brooklyn LOVES going out to eat, so this was definitely a special treat.


We had so much fun making fun shapes out of our pancakes.
Brooklyn got to order a hot cocoa. One of her all time fav's! She was very pleased with the over the top presentation.
I took this shot of the boys heading to the car. Melt me from head to toe.
Then later after everyone took great naps we headed to the pool for some fun. Both kids loved the slide, although Ben a little more. He kept saying "slide? again?!"

All day Sunday we would hear from little man "go scwimming? Dat was fuuuun!" Can you tell he enjoyed himself from the picture above?

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Wednesday ramblings from a mom in love

I'm a mom. Surprise!

But seriously. I'm a M.O.M. To not only 1, but 2 amazing kids. I don't know about you, but every 6 months or so it dawns on me all over again that I have been put in charge of these kids...to raise them, love them, encourage them...but even beyond that I am raising these teeny tiny people to be functioning humans in society. That's a lot of pressure! I make a joke to Matt when this thought enters my mind and then I look up to the heavens, kind of like "really? Me? You trust ME with these two precious lives? I'm just a kid myself!"

It's just kind of mind blowing. Even more so now that we have some decisions to make outside of "what should we make them for dinner". Decisions about school for Brooklyn next year. She's either going to be the oldest or the youngest of her class. We are confident in our decision about holding her back so she has the advantage of being a little older rather than way younger, but still that means heavy decisions for next year. She'll end up doing something twice, whether its the 4's one more time or kinder twice. Sounds so trivial as I write it, and I know in my heart that God already knows the answer and I just need to trust my instinct...but this marks the first decision we've had to make on behalf of our child that has truly taken lots of prayer, consideration and thought.

I sometimes pause and think back on my life as a child. Especially now that I have a daughter (heaven help me).

My mom used to take me to get my hair highlighted in high school. Every school dance I got my nails done, and not just a manicure, but full blown acrylic nails! I mean, that's crazy. Now that I'm a mom myself I think about it and audibly shake my head and say "there's no way we are paying for Brooklyn to get her 17 yr old hair highlighted or her sassy teenage self to get fake nails for each winter formal." But on the flip side, I'm *just* wise enough to know that I have NO IDEA what high school will entail (or even next year for that matter)...until we're there. I have no clue what kind of things I will be willing to sacrifice (like my parents did) in order to spoil errr I mean, bless my kids. Parenthood is much different than I thought it would be. Harder, messier, uglier, tireder (is that a word?)...but also so much more miraculous, take your breath away, knock you off your socks, send you to the moon, would do anything kind of love than I could have EVER wrapped my puny mind around. I'm a better person having these two in my life, and I pray with every fiber of my being that I don't screw this up :)

And that's my rambling thoughts on this Wednesday. Oh the things I do...and will continue to do for these two faces.
Playing "hair style" the other night

Sunday, January 20, 2013

28 to great check in and recipes

Well, we're heading into week three of "28 to great" and we're doing...great! I have so many amazing recipes that Matt has either created or found to fit in the parameters of eating healthy, raw, fresh, preservative and sugar free (mostly), wheat, gluten free YUMMY dinners.
 
He made a yogurt dip to accompany grilled salmon one night, it was incredible. So the following night we grilled chicken thighs, and made lettuce cups and used the leftover yogurt dip instead of cheese or another bottled sauce. I could eat these every day. Seriously my mouth is watering just thinking about them.
 
Grilled chicken lettuce cups:
Bib lettuce for the cups
Grilled chicken thighs with a little home made rub: chili powder, coriander, cumin, smoked paprika, oregano
Corn sauteed in coconut oil
Diced red onion
Chunks of avocado
Yogurt dip: plain greek whole fat yogurt, ginger, garlic, cilantro, lime juice s & p

 
 
The non creative nights have looked like this:
Not too shabby. Lot's of grilled or roasted veggies (above was butternut squash, brussel sprouts and asparagus), lemon chicken and some jasmine rice. Yum!
 
I have a few more Feenstra Faves that I'll share. We are looking and feeling better, but I'm not going to lie, working out 6 days a week and foregoing some of the loves of my life (cheese, sugar and BREAD) has been a crazy hard experiment in self control and discipline. I made the mistake of going to costco, hungry, during sample time. Ugh! I had to hold my breath and run through! I would love a giant pizza followed by a few slices of chocolate cake!
 
Two weeks to go!
 
Last week after everyone was finally feeling better I decided to take the kids spur of the moment instead of napping, to the childrens museum. We were there for 3.5 hours. They had a BLAST!!!! Brooklyn continues to show such love for animals. They have this vet clinic and it was where she wanted to stay the whole time. Caring for the dogs and cats. I love how much she loves and talks about animals. Such a true passion!
 
We were talking the other day about going to ride horses some day and she has mentioned to anyone and everyone she has seen since that "my mom is going to take me to ride a REAL horse". 
Ben playing with the animal cages
face paint fun
 
Grocery shopping
Yippppeeee!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Girl's Christmas Pictures: 5th Annual!

This has come to be one of the things I look forward to the most when December arrives. Girl's (and one boy ;) Christmas pictures. It's getting crazier to coordiante schedule wise and getting the kids to sit still long enough, but we did it! Here is a look through the years again and a few of my favorite from this year. Love these kids, each and every one of them! So blessed.
2008: Kali, Brooklyn, Remi, Taylor
2009: Kali, Taylor, Brooklyn, Remi
 
2010: Remi, Brooklyn, Kali, Taylor

2010: Ben was barely there :) but sissy was sure proud to show him off as her own
2011: Kinly (Kali's new sister), Brooklyn, Ben, Taylor, Remi, Kali
2012: Ben, Taylor, Gracie (her first year! Em's daughter on Tays lap) Kali holding Kinley, Brooklyn & Remi